I’m egalitarian.
There, I’ve said it. My confession.
I haven’t always been, but studying the issue more over the past five years led to that conclusion. But for the past couple of years, I didn’t say anything. Maybe it will keep me from ministering to some people if I said it publically, I thought.
That’s a selfish reason in the end.
I finished The Blue Parakeet by Scot McKnight this week for Solomon Summaries. It’s not a book about women in the church, but he uses that issue as a case study to demonstrate how to read and interpret the Bible for today. (Side note: I highly recommend this book because it combines two of my passions: reading the Bible as story and understanding cultural contexts both of the Bible and your own context. It’s well written and great for lay level–i.e. not a high-language elitist book. But my full review will be up in two weeks at Solomon Summaries.) Back to the subject at hand. In The Blue Parakeet, Scot tells briefly his story about his move to being egalitarian and to speaking out about being egalitarian.
It was healing.
I’ve been in churches where I couldn’t minister in a way I felt led because I’m a woman. For example, when a Sunday school teacher was needed, I volunteered. After all, I’m trained, and I love to teach.
I was told I couldn’t.
Instead, they chose a man who wasn’t trained and who didn’t particularly want to teach.
Let me stop here and say I still think that church is a great church and does a lot of great ministry. No church is perfect, and God uses all of us imperfect people and imperfect churches. (I also don’t think you’re a bad person if you’re complementarian.)
I cried reading Scot’s story because he affirmed I’m not a bad person. I’m not on some slippery slope destined for liberalism. I don’t love the Bible any less than a complementarian. So I’m speaking up now because perhaps by doing so, it might be healing to another. In doing so, I no longer hide but work toward the resurrection in some way–a world where perfect harmony is restored.
Another time, perhaps, I’ll tell you why I believe spiritually mature, gifted, and called women can lead churches in the same way spiritually mature, gifted, and called men can. For now, it’s enough that I’ve said it.
I’ve said it, what more can I say?
Believe me, there’s no other way.
I love you, I will to the end.
There, I’ve said it again.





