I changed my Facebook profile the other day. Under Work, it read “writer, speaker, piano and flute teacher.” Since having Keegan, for this stage in my life, I am no longer speaker and piano and flute teacher (except for one piano student). I deleted and retyped: writer, homemaker.
“Homemaker” is a dreadfully old-fashioned term. The teenage me would slap the thirty-something me who saw fit to describe herself with this word. Traveler! Career-woman! teenage me exclaims. Musician! Bohemian!
Alas, I sit in suburb, listening to my son half-play, half-whine in his crib, fighting his nap. And I realize that he learned this from watching me (50 points for reference). I half-play, half-whine in crib (or house, for those of you unfamiliar with such hip terms), fighting my own life.
Homemaker? But I have no talent for interior design or organization or couponing (or desire to acquire said talents). I live in house where dust bunnies thrive (and indeed are named). Homemaker? I can’t even glue together two Popsicle sticks.
But, yes, the hippopotamus (another 50 points for reference). I long to make things beautiful and joyful and rejuvenating for husband and son. I long to make a place of truth and light and love, a place where people gather and laughter and music ring, where the sorrowful find comfort and the joyful find dance. I long to make a place that welcomes friend and stranger, that nurtures and encourages, that teaches and inspires, where inventions and artwork burst the seams of this house.
So I learn to embrace this term, homemaker, even if it means doing the dishes.







