This past weekend, Chris and I saw Rachel Getting Married at the dollar theater.
A note on the dollar theater: The line outside to buy tickets piled to the end of the building. Inside, much discernment was needed to determine where the credit card ticket line ended and where the snack line began. We were like piglets shoving for a tit. The economy, perhaps?
Back to Rachel Getting Married: brilliant. Absolutely brilliant. The characterization, the dialogue, the family relations: brilliant.
Kym returns from rehab in time for her sister Rachel’s wedding. As the weekend progresses, the tensions unfolding, forcing confrontation as the family reveals their anger and hurt.
But through this drama, the movie retains a sense of humor, not in the Jack Black or Jim Carrey sense, but in recognizing the comedy of everyday life.
If you thought the story of the Prodigal Son overdone, you have not yet seen this movie. The characters are tangible, surprising, and yet everything they do is exactly what that character had to do. For example, during the toasts at the rehearsal dinner, Kym raises her glass of seltzer water (just seltzer water, she stresses) and turns the toast into a confession of sorts. If any of you know addicts, you know this is spot on: An addict makes everything about themselves.
The dialogue grabbed you: this is no sparkling witticism, neither is it boring, trite quips. It roots you into the scenes and characters. Small, unnoticable comments are the furniture you sit on everyday, not recognizing when it’s there but noticing the emptiness when it’s gone.
The writing and cinematography (simple, almost home movie style) pulls you into this life. You aren’t watching a movie. You’re present at the wedding. You’re part of the wedding party. You feel the awkwardness of moments. You laugh and cheer in the same way you laugh at the toasts of a friend’s wedding. In ot
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her words, you’re not laughing at the joke on scene, you’re participating with the laughter of friends.
And the acting: kudos to every actor in this movie. These are not Hollywood pretty people, but they’re gorgeous because they are your friends. One expression tells you years of backstory. This combined with the writing made it memorable. You knew everything without anyone having to tell the backstory.
This is how I want to write. I want to create characters in the same way, write dialogue that has to be.
I highly recommend this movie for its understanding of people and family relations. It digs into these characters, and in doing so, digs into you. Brilliant.

Today’s Artuality day! Our theme this month is movies. How have movies or a movie inspired you artistically or spiritually?
November’s Glimpses features an interview with
Burn After Reading: I realize this got mixed reviews at best, but I liked this film. I laughed out loud. Some say it’s making fun for the sake of making fun. There are no sympathetic characters. Etcetera, etcetera, etcetera.*
Mongol is an epic film about Genghis Khan’s rise to power. It’s full of magic realism (or supernatural elements), beautiful landscapes, and subtlety. The subtlety of the acting, the musical score, and the battle scenes not only gave a beauty to the story, but allowed me to approach the film openly (both emotionally and intellectually) knowing I was not being manipulated.





